Are you contemplating skipping the honeymoon? Would it simply cost too much? I recommend looking at Groupon Getaways. There are lots of exotic locations and some more local hotel deals, as well. Definitely worth checking out.

How it works is that it's a discounted package through a travel company. You have to "redeem" the Groupon by a certain date by calling the company and scheduling your trip. You won't be traveling as part of a group, it'll just be the two of you, which is nice. My only issue/fear so far is that the communication/customer service from agencey will be poor. This can be a downside if you have questions and the travel agent assigned to our trip doesn't respond very quickly to emails or phone calls. For the most part it's not a deal breaker, but kind of annoying.

If you will be building a patchwork family you can consider a cruise. Why?

Royal Caribbean runs offers where the child can free to sail. Basically everything is paid for unless we want something extra like alcohol, massages, excursions, etc). Plus they have a complimentary kid program where they take your child to play with other kids in their age bracket and they go do fun activities so we can get adult alone time too.